Self Construction Tips
by Shikhar Prajapati Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer
Exceptional men and women have very clear self- ideals, toward which
they are constantly striving. They set high standards for themselves and strive
to live up to them. And so can you. The more clear you are about the person you
want to become, the more likely it is that, day by day, you will evolve into
that person. You will rise to the height of dominant aspirations for yourself.
You will become what you must admire. Unsuccessful and unhappy men and women
have very vague ideals, or in most cases, no self-ideals at all. They give
little or no thought to the person they want to be or to the qualities that
they would like to develop in themselves. Their growth and evolution eventually
slows and stops. They get stuck in a mental groove and they stay there. They
lose all motivation of self- improvement. As you clarify your fundamental values
and work to integrate them into everything you do, your personality improves
and because your outer life reflects your inner life, your work, your
relationships and every aspect of your outer life improves as well.
The second part of
your Self Construction is your Self-image. Your Self- image
is the way you see yourself and the way you think about yourself, as you go
about your daily activities. Your self image is often your inner mirror, into
which you look to see how you are supposed to behave or perform in a particular
situation. You always behave consistently with the pictures that you hold of
yourself on the inside. Because of this, you can improve your performance by
deliberately changing the mental pictures that you hold about yourself in that
area. This process of self-image modification is one of the fastest and most dependable
ways to improve your performance. As you begin to see yourself and think about
yourself as more proficient and confident, your behavior becomes more focused and
effective.
When you purposefully
change your self-image, you will walk, talk, act and feel better than your ever
have before. You will change both your personality and your results by changing
your mental images.
The third part of
your self-concept is your Self-esteem.
Your self-esteem is how you feel about yourself. It is the emotional element of
your personality, and it is the foundation quality of high performance. It is
the key to cheerfulness and personal effectiveness. It is the source of the energy,
enthusiasm, strength and confidence that powers your personality and makes your
into a high achieving man or woman. When you feel good about yourself, you
perform better. And when you perform well, you feel good about yourself. Both are essential. The best measure of self-
esteem is how much you like yourself. The more you like yourself, the better
you do at everything you put your mind to. The more you like yourself , the
more confidence you have, the more positive is your attitude, the healthier and
more enthusiastic you are and the happier you are overall.
“I like myself! I like myself!I like myself!”
Or better yet, you can say “I
love myself” I love myself! I love myself!” Liking yourself is very healthy. It is the key
to personal effectiveness and to happy relationships with others. The more you
like and respect yourself, the better you perform in everything you do. You are
more relaxed and positive. You are more confident
about your abilities. You make fewer mistakes. You have more energy and you are
more creative.
Shikhar Prajapati (India’s favourite Motivational Speaker &
Corporate Trainer) serving since 2001 and passionately trained more than 3 lakh people.
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