How to make others feel important

How to make others feel important? By Motivational Speaker in Mizoram Aizawl

Give Attention and make others feel important. You always give your attention to that which you most value, to that which most interests you, to that which is most important to you. Your attention is your life. Wherever your attention goes, your thoughts, your feelings, your life goes also.

            In your relationships with others, the amount of attention you pay to them is the chief indicator of how important they are to you. You always give more of your attention to the people and the things that you value the most. The opposite of attention is indifference. You ignore the people and things you neither value nor appreciate.

             When you pay attention to a person, you are saying - I value you and I consider you to be important. When you ignore a person, you are saying - I consider you to be unimportant and of little value. The every act of ignoring a person lowers his or her self-esteem. Indifference often makes him or her feel angry and defensive.

            A major cause of negative emotions is the feeling that we are being ignored by people. Being ignored, whether by a spouse, a boss or even a waiter in a restaurant, makes us feel devalued and diminished. This is why people who are effective in human relations are very sensitive to, and aware of, the need to pay proper attention to others.

             How do you pay proper attention to other people? You  practice the “white magic” of listening. Listening is the true measure of attention on human relations. Listening  is the way you show how much you value another person and what the other person in saying. It is only when you listen, and listen well, to another person that you demonstrate to the other person that he or she is valuable and important. The best leaders and salespeople, the best managers and friends, are all excellent and skilled listeners.

  

Shikhar Prajapati

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