By Motivational Speaker in Rajasthan
Jaipur Jodhpur Kota Bikaner Ajmer Udaipur
Tips for Good
Conversation which will help you to be a better conversationalist in any work
or social situation –
I.
Cue the Subject to the
Listener-
The first rule of good conversation is to cue the
subject to your listener. Talk to people about subjects that interest them. Any
subjects, including the subjects that used to be taboo in conversation, are
okay if they are of interest to the person you are speaking with.But if you see
that you are getting no response to a particular subject, back off quickly and
talk about something else.
One of the best ways
to open a conversation is simply to ask the person, “What sort of work do you
do?”
Most people consider
their personal career path to be one of the most fascinating stories ever told.
Whenever the speaker stops, you can keep the conversation or momentum going by
asking, and then what did they do?” Asking people, ‘How did you get into that
business, anyway?” and then what did you do?” will enable you to keep a
conversation going almost indefinitely.
II.
The second rule for Good Conversation
is to Take Your Turn
If ever you find that you have
talked for 3 minutes straight, without
question or comment from your listeners, you can pretty sure that you are
talking on a subject of interest only to yourself. We all make this mistake.
Remember, if other people are not contributing, what you are doing is making a
speech, not holding a conversation.
Taking your turn also means not
interrupting when people are talking. And when you are interrupted, and when
someone else joins the group, the most polite thing to do is also the hardest;
shut up. Don’t go back and finish a story unless you are asked to do so.
Each person has an opportunity both
to speak and to listen. If either party is deprived of the opportunity to
speak, the conversation becomes one-sided and the person talking will be
thought of as a bore.
III.
The third rule for Good Conversation
is to Think Before You Speak-
Avoid saying anything that would
make someone uncomfortable, unhappy or self-conscious. Be tactful and aware of
the feelings and sensitivities of the others.
For good
conversation, respect other people’s privacy and reserve a little privacy for
yourself. Some people get into the habit of interviewing other people, and
asking them a lot of questions whose answers are really none of their business.
Keep your questions general and impersonal and give the other person the
opportunity to decide whether or not her or she wants to open up to you.
IV.
Finally to be an Excellent Conversationalist,
Be Natural-
Be yourself. Let your personality
flow. Only say what you feel comfortable saying. If for any reason, something
inside you tells you not to speak up, listen to your inner voice. Speak easily and
spontaneously, without trying to impress or be impresses by anyone. Just say
what comes naturally to your mind.
The very best conversationalists and
the most enjoyable people to be around are those who are relaxed, positive and
complete natural.
(Motivational
Speaker and Corporate Trainer)
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