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By - Shikhar Prajapati
(Motivational Speaker Corporate Trainer)
Sunday 17 May 2020
Tips for Good Conversation
By Motivational Speaker in Rajasthan
Jaipur Jodhpur Kota Bikaner Ajmer Udaipur
Tips for Good
Conversation which will help you to be a better conversationalist in any work
or social situation –
I.
Cue the Subject to the
Listener-
The first rule of good conversation is to cue the
subject to your listener. Talk to people about subjects that interest them. Any
subjects, including the subjects that used to be taboo in conversation, are
okay if they are of interest to the person you are speaking with.But if you see
that you are getting no response to a particular subject, back off quickly and
talk about something else.
One of the best ways
to open a conversation is simply to ask the person, “What sort of work do you
do?”
Most people consider
their personal career path to be one of the most fascinating stories ever told.
Whenever the speaker stops, you can keep the conversation or momentum going by
asking, and then what did they do?” Asking people, ‘How did you get into that
business, anyway?” and then what did you do?” will enable you to keep a
conversation going almost indefinitely.
II.
The second rule for Good Conversation
is to Take Your Turn
If ever you find that you have
talked for 3 minutes straight, without
question or comment from your listeners, you can pretty sure that you are
talking on a subject of interest only to yourself. We all make this mistake.
Remember, if other people are not contributing, what you are doing is making a
speech, not holding a conversation.
Taking your turn also means not
interrupting when people are talking. And when you are interrupted, and when
someone else joins the group, the most polite thing to do is also the hardest;
shut up. Don’t go back and finish a story unless you are asked to do so.
Each person has an opportunity both
to speak and to listen. If either party is deprived of the opportunity to
speak, the conversation becomes one-sided and the person talking will be
thought of as a bore.
III.
The third rule for Good Conversation
is to Think Before You Speak-
Avoid saying anything that would
make someone uncomfortable, unhappy or self-conscious. Be tactful and aware of
the feelings and sensitivities of the others.
For good
conversation, respect other people’s privacy and reserve a little privacy for
yourself. Some people get into the habit of interviewing other people, and
asking them a lot of questions whose answers are really none of their business.
Keep your questions general and impersonal and give the other person the
opportunity to decide whether or not her or she wants to open up to you.
IV.
Finally to be an Excellent Conversationalist,
Be Natural-
Be yourself. Let your personality
flow. Only say what you feel comfortable saying. If for any reason, something
inside you tells you not to speak up, listen to your inner voice. Speak easily and
spontaneously, without trying to impress or be impresses by anyone. Just say
what comes naturally to your mind.
The very best conversationalists and
the most enjoyable people to be around are those who are relaxed, positive and
complete natural.
(Motivational
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By - Shikhar Prajapati
(Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)
Tuesday 5 May 2020
Whatever you Give, you get the Same
Whatever you Give, you get
the Same
by Motivational Speaker in Punjab Ludhiana Amritsar Jalandhar
To raise the self-esteem of others use the
principle of the boomerang. This principle states that “whatever genuine
emotion you express toward and other person will boomerang back on you, sooner
or later.
Shakespeare
wrote – “The fragrance of the rose lingers on the hand that casts it.”
Whenever
you express a positive sentiment to or about some else, it will eventually come
back to you, like a boomerang. If you express a negative thought or idea, the
same principle hold true, so make sure that what you say about others is what
you want to have come back.
Resist
the temptation to criticise, condemn or complain. Practice being agreeable and
accepting. Express appreciation, approval and admiration. Listen attentively to
others when they speak, and remember the boomerang. If you do all these things
you will make others feel terrific about themselves and you will be welcome
wherever you go.
Shikhar
Prajapati
Shikhar Prajapati is India’s
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Monday 4 May 2020
How to Listen
How to Listen
by Motivational Speaker in Odisha Bhubaneshwar Cuttack Rourkela
(a)
Listen Attentively
The
first part of Active Listening is to listen attentively. Face the speaker
directly, rather than at an angle. Lean slightly forward, toward the speaker.
If you are standing up, shift your weight onto the balls of your feet so that
you energy projects forward. Watch the mouth and eyes of the other person
closely. This tells the speaker that you are paying complete attention to what
he or she is saying.
(b) Listen
without Interrupting
The
second part of Active Listening is to listen without interrupting. Most people don’t
really listen when another is speaking. They are so busy thinking about what
they are going to say when the other person takes a breath that they seldom
hear what the other person is really saying.
Whenever
a speaker senses that the listener is just waiting for a chance to jump in, or
that the other person’s thoughts are somewhere else, perhaps busily preparing a
response, the speaker feels that the other person is tuned to him or her and to
what he or she is saying, the speaker feels more valuable. So listen patiently,
listen calmly, listen as if there was nothing else in the world that you would
rather hear what this person is saying, for as long as this person takes to say
it.
(c) Pause before
Replying
The
3rd part of Active Listening is to pause before replying. When a speaker
finishes speaking, pause for 3 to 5 seconds before saying anything. In this
pause, 3 things will happen.
First,
you will actually hear the other person better. When you allow a few seconds
for the other person’s remarks to sink in, you actually understand the other
person more completely.
Second,
when you pause, you avoid interrupting the other person if he or she has just
paused to collect his or her thoughts. When you pause for 3-5 seconds, you give
the other person an opportunity to continue rather than cutting him or her off.
There are few things more irritating or insulting than being interrupted in the
middle of a thought or in the middle of a sentence.
Third,
when you pause before replying, you make it clear, with your silence, that you
consider what has just been said to be important. You are giving it careful
consideration. It is a great compliment to the speaker to have the listener sit
quietly and think about his or her remarks before responding, whatever the
response may be.
(d) Question for
Clarification
The
fourth part of Good Listening is to question for clarification. Ask questions
to ensure that you fully understand what the other person has said. When you
assume you understand, without checking, you very often don’t understand what
the other person has said at all, This is especially true in conversation
between men and women.
Perhaps
the best way to expand way to expand a conversation, increase your
opportunities to listen and improve your understanding is by the use of an open
minded questions.
An
open ended question is one that cannot be answered with a “yes” or a “no”. Open
ended questions begin with. The additional benefit of asking open ended
questions is that you get more opportunity to listen, more opportunity to build
trust, and more opportunity to fully understand what the other person is
thinking and feeling.
(e) Feed back
the Person’s words to Him -
The
fifth part of Active Listening is to feedback the person’s words to him. Summary
what he has said in your own words. When
you summarise and feed it back, you compliment the speaker. You show how
closely you have been paying attention. Infact, until you can feedback a
speaker’s meaning correctly, you have not really understood.
Try
this when another person finishes speaking. Pause for 3 to 5 seconds and then
say, “Let me make sure that I understand you. What you are saying is this.” And
then go and to feed it back in your own words.
Whenever
you make the effort to listen so attentively that you are able to feed a person’s words back to him or her, you
increase your ability to communicate.
You build greater trust between the two of you. You build higher self-esteem in
the other person, and you develop self-discipline in yourself.
Remember, you never learn anything while your mouth is open. When you
are speaking, all you can say is what you already know. But when you are
listening, it is possible for you to learn something new.
Shikhar
Prajapati
(Motivational
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Shikhar Prajapati is India’s
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Benefits of Listening
Benefits of Listening
A. Listening Builds Trust
Whenever someone listens to us, we trust that other
person more. The fastest way for two people to build trust between them is for
each to listen attentively and appreciatively to the other person. When you
listen attentively, the other person likes and trust you far more than if you
don’t. He is then more open to being influenced by you.
B. Listening Builds
Self-esteem
When you Listen carefully and
attentively to a person, his Self-esteem
goes up. Whenever anyone listens to you very carefully, your self-esteem goes
up as well. You feel more important. You
feel that you are More Valuable Person.
C. Listening Builds
Self-Discipline
It requires wonderful personal
mastery and self-control to listen attentively to another person. The
average person speaks at about 150 words per minute, while you can listen at
the rate of almost 600 words per minute. Active Listening requires that
you can control you attention, and keep yourself focused on the person
speaking. The more you can discipline yourself to listen without distraction,
the more effective you will became in other areas of your life as well.
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How to make others feel important
How to make others feel important? By Motivational
Speaker in Mizoram Aizawl
Give Attention and make others feel important. You always give your
attention to that which you most value, to that which most interests you, to
that which is most important to you. Your attention is your life. Wherever your
attention goes, your thoughts, your feelings, your life goes also.
In your relationships with others, the amount of attention you pay to
them is the chief indicator of how important they are to you. You always give
more of your attention to the people and the things that you value the most.
The opposite of attention is indifference. You ignore the people and things you
neither value nor appreciate.
A major cause of
negative emotions is the feeling that we are being ignored by people. Being
ignored, whether by a spouse, a boss or even a waiter in a restaurant, makes us
feel devalued and diminished. This is why people who are effective in human
relations are very sensitive to, and aware of, the need to pay proper attention
to others.
Shikhar
Prajapati
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