Total Commitment requires a
heartfelt determination to make the relationship successful. If the two persons
are compatible in their basic values and attitudes and are temperamentally
balanced, it is much easier for them to make a lifelong commitment. A total
commitment means that neither party ever considers or discusses the possibility
of separating, breaking up or divorcing. Making a total commitment requires
that you burn your physical and emotional bridges and refuse to consider any
other option except making this relationship successful.
Many
people avoid making a total commitment to a relationship, even marriage,
because they have been hurt in previous relationships. They feel that if they
keep their options open, they will always have an emotional escape route. This
lack of commitment, however, leads almost invariably to creating the exact
situation that the individual fears. The relationship gradually declines as one
or both parties continue to hold back and to think of separation as the
solution to the problems that inevitably arise between two people.
“Love is the total commitment to
the full development of the potential of
the other.”
When you truly love another person, you want that
person to fullfill his or her full potential, and to become everything that he
or she is capable of becoming. If one or the other has the slightest hesitation
in creating or supporting every opportunity for his or her mate to grow and
develop, what you have might be a relationship, but it is probably not real
love.
A
wonderful thing about human beings is that we are free emotionally only when we
have given up all other options and committed ourselves whole-heartedly to one
other person. It is only then that we are capable of developing the
high-quality relationships that we need to complete our evolution as human
beings.
Shikhar
Prajapati
(Motivational
Speaker and Corporate Trainer)
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