Practice unconditional Acceptance by Motivational Speaker in Kerala Kochi

Practice unconditional Acceptance by Motivational Speaker in Kerala Kochi

To build the self-esteem you can practise “Acceptance”. Each of us is conditioned to seek the acceptance of other people. The infant starts off looking into the face of his mother or father to see if he is loved, respected, wanted, important, funny, intelligent and so on. As we grow up, we look into the faces of other people to see how we are doing. We have a deep need to be accepted by other people, even by people we don’t know.

                When two people meet, for example, either for the first time or in consequent meetings, the very first thing that has to be established between them is a certain level of acceptance. We look into the eyes, the smile, the face and the body language of the other person, to see whether that other person accepts us and is happy with our presence. Only when we feel accepted we can relax.

                When you express genuine unconditional acceptance of another person, you raise that person’s self esteem, you improve that person’s  self image, and you make him or her feel relaxed and safe in your company.

Shikhar Prajapati

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Key to Improve Relationships – Be Agreeable by Motivational Speaker in Karnataka Bangalore

Key to Improve Relationships – Be Agreeable 

The first behaviour is simply to be agreeable. People like to be around agreeable men and women, persons with whom they can freely and easily discuss a great variety of subjects. When you nod, smile and agree with a person who is talking, he or she feels more valuable and respected, feels that what he or she has to say is important and therefore he or she is also important.

                Agreeable behaviour raises the self-esteem of others. Disagreement lowers it. Whenever you disagree or argue with people, you are challenging their knowledge and cleverness. You are telling them that they are wrong, that their decision and experience are not worth very much. Therefore, by  extension they are not worth very much either.

                It is a fact of human nature that we hate to be wrong and never so much as it is obvious that we are. Being wrong on an issue makes us feel that we ourselves are somehow wrong. Our self-esteem takes a beating. We feel diminished and inadequate, and we see ourselves as deficient or incompetent. When you tell a person that he or she is wrong, his or her immediate response will be to become defensive, to dig in and be even more inflexible. Our self-esteem is usually delicate and when we are told that we are wrong, we react quickly to guard and protect it at all costs.

                Be agreeable. Be the kind of person who agrees easily with other people. If you became agreeable and easy person to get along with, you create fear less resistance in other people to helping you or to getting along with you. Even if the other person is obviously wrong, based on your knowledge of the facts, you have to ask yourself, “How important is this?” If it’s not important, rather than disagreeing, let it pass.

                Your decision to become an agreeable an easy going person will lower your stress levels and increase your ability to influence others to help you. You will raise the self-esteem of others and feel better about yourself, as well.

Shikhar Prajapati

(Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)

Shikhar Prajapati is  India’s favourite Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer who has successfully trained more than 7 lakh people since 2001.

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Raising the self-esteem of others by Motivational Speaker in Jharkhand Jamshedpur Dhanbad Ranchi

Tips for raising the Self-esteem of Others

1.       Immediately stop doing or saying anything that lowers another’s self-esteem. At the very least, be neutral. Keep silent. Say nothing. Destructive criticism of any kind lowers self-esteem faster than any other behaviour. More relationships and personalities are damaged by destructive criticism than by all other negative influences put together.

The best decision you can ever make is to stop criticising other people. Eliminate destructive criticism of any kind from your vocabulary and from your conversations. Become a positive person by only saying things that build people up rather than tearing them down.

2. Almost all negative emotions begin with judging and blaming others. The reason you avoid criticising is therefore a purely selfish one. Being positive and supportive of others, or atleast neutral, enables you to remain positive andcheerful yourself.  Refusing to criticise allows you to remain detached rather than becoming emotionally involved.

3. It is easy to get into the habit of criticising and fault – finding. Many people’s entire conversation revolves around badmouthing and criticisms. However, you must break this habit if you are really determined to develop the kind of personality you need to get to the top. You must stop running people down or speaking negatively about them for any reason. No matter what a person has done, or how wrong you think it is, keep your opinions to yourself. Make a game of finding reasons not to criticise or condemn. Make up excuses for the other person, wish him or her well, and when appropriate, forgive him and let him off the hook.

4. Another behaviour that undermines self-esteem in both the speaker and the listener is the habit of complaining. Many people have the habit of complaining. They speak like- “How bad it is that he has done this” or “How bad it is the prices are so high” “How bad it is that the business is so bad. And then they speak more negative talk with each other. The habit of finding things to complain things to complain about attracts other complainers into your life and your social circle.

By the Law of Concentration, which states that whatever you dwell upon grows in your reality, the more you complain, the more you find to complain about, and the more people you find to complain with.

            Real men and women never complain. If they have a problem and there is something they can do about it, they get busy and take action. If there is nothing they can do about it, they simply say, “What cannot be cured must be endured.” They then get busy doing what they can, but they never, never complain.

            The truth is that no one is really interested in your complains anyways. People have problems of their own, and many of their problems are a lot of worse than yours. Probably 80% of the people you talk to about your complains don’t care, and the other 20% are kind of glad you have got them.

Conclusion –

            Resolve to halt all criticising, condemning and complaining. If you simply eliminate negativity of all kinds from your conversation, that alone will have a powerful, positive impact on your relationships. You will feel better about yourself and so will everyone else.

 Shikhar Prajapati

(Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)

Shikhar Prajapati is  India’s favourite Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer who has successfully trained more than 7 lakh people since 2001.

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Make others feel important to raise Self-esteem by Motivational Speaker in Jammu Kashmir Srinagar Anantnag

Make others feel important to raise Self-esteem

by Motivational Speaker in Jammu Kashmir  Srinagar 

The key to raising the self-esteem of others is simply to make others feel important. Everything you do or say that makes another feel more important boosts his or her self-esteem and increases your self-esteem in equal measure at the same time.

                When you go during your day looking for ways to make others feel important you will be popular and welcome everywhere. You will be healthier and happier and get more real contentment from life than others do. You will have lower levels of stress and higher levels of energy. Above all, you will really like and respect yourself more and experience greater peace of mind.

Shikhar Prajapati

(Motivational Speaker andCorporate Trainer)

Shikhar Prajapati is  India’s favourite Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer who has successfully trained more than 7 lakh people since 2001.

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