Sunday, 18 September 2016

How to Make People Like You

#How #to #Make #People #Like #You

One of the #deepest #drives of #human #nature is to #desire to be #appreciated. The longing to be liked, to be held in esteem, to be a sought after person, #everyone wants to be #liked and #popular.
                One basic trait will go far toward getting people to like you. That trait is a sincere and forthright interest in and loves for people. Don’t spend more of your life perfecting faults in human relations. Spend the rest of your life perfecting your great capacities for friendliness, for personal relationships are vitally important to successful living.


#Tips #for #getting #people #to #Like #You


·         Learn to #remember #the #names. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing. A man’s name is very important to him.
·         #Be #a #comfortable #person so there is no strain in being with you.
·         #Acquire #the #quality #of #relaxed #easy-goingness so that things do not distress you
·         #Don’t’ #be #selfish. Guard against giving the impression that you know it all. Be natural and normally humble.
·         #Cultivate the #quality #of #being #interesting so that people will want to be with you and get something of stimulating value from their association with you.
·         Study to get the scratchy elements out of your personality, even those of which you may be unconscious.
·         Sincerely attempt to heal. #Drain #off your #grievances.
·         #Practice #liking #people until you learn to do so genuinely.
·         Never miss an opportunity to say a #word #of #congratulation upon anyone’s’ achievement or express sympathy in sorrow or disappointment.
·         Get a deep spiritual experience so that you have something to give people that will help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively. Give strength to people and they will give affection to you.

Shikhar Prajapati
(India’s favourite Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)