Friday 27 March 2020

The Law of Indirect Effort by Motivational Speaker in Himachal Pradesh Shimla Solan Dharmsala Kullu

The Law of Indirect Effort 
by Motivational Speaker in Himachal Pradesh Shimla Solan 


The Law of Indirect Effort says that you get almost everything in your relationships with others more easily by approaching them indirectly rather than directly.

                For example –

1. To impress others

 If you want to impress people, the direct way of going about it is to try to convince them of your worthy qualities and achievement. But trying to impress another person by talking about yourself usually makes you feel like a little foolish, and sometimes even embarrassed. The indirect way of impressing another person, however, is simply to be impressed by the other person. The more you are impressed by the other person, by who he or she is, or what he or she has accomplished, the more likely it is that the other person will be impressed by you.

2. To get someone interested in you

If you want to get someone interested in you, the direct way is to tell him or her all about yourself. But the indirect way works better. It is simply to become interested in him or her. The more interested you become in another person, the more likely it is that the other person will become interested in you.

3. To become happy

                Ifyou want to be happy, the direct way is to do whatever you can think of that will make you happy. However, the most enjoyable and lasting form of happiness comes from making someone else happy. By the Law of Indirect Effort, whenever you do or say anything that makes your own spirits, your won self-esteem.

4. To get respect from others

                How do you get another person to respect you? The best way is to respect him or her. When you express respect or admiration for another person. He or she feels respect and admiration for you. In human relations, we call this the Principle of Reciprocity. Whenever you do something nice for someone else, the other person will want to reciprocate by doing something nice for you. Most of our romances and friendships are based on this principle.

5. To get believe from others in you

                Howdo you get a person to believe in you, given the Law of Indirect Effort?  The answer is to believe in him or her. Whenever you show that you believe or have confidence in another persons, he or she will tend to believe or have confidence in another person, he or she will tend to believe in and have confidence in you. You get what you give. What you send out, you get back.

                The most important application of this Law of Indirect Effort have to do with developing a healthy personality in yourself. You are structured in such a way that everything you do to raise the self-esteem of another person arises your own self-esteem at the same time, and in the same measure. Since self-esteem is the hallmark of the healthy personality, you can actually improve the health of your own personality by taking every opportunity to improve the health of the personalities of others. What you sow in the lives of others, you reap in your own life.

                The most successful and happy men and women are those who make other people feel good about themselves when they are with them. When you go through life raising the self-esteem of others, opportunities will open up before you, and people will help you in ways you cannot now imagine.

                Practice the Law of Indirect Effort. Take every opportunity to say and do things that make people feel more valuable. Each time you express a kindness toward another person, your own self-esteem improves. Your own personality becomes more positive and healthy. You impress into your own mind whatever you express toward someone else. 

Shikhar Prajapati
(Motivational Speaker and Corporate Trainer)


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